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Zonedout



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

man lets hope she jumps his bones in the next strip, he could use it.

Also i find the people who supress thier sexual desires and are uncomfortable with talking about sex are those who have the MOST problems with sexual interations and relationships.
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Lasairfiona



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Getting married without kissing has been advocated in a number of christian books. Kissed the Girls and Made Them Cry is the biggest one and was very popular when I was 14 or so. I read a series of books that focused on some christian girl who's sister was getting married before she kissed the guy. It was very romanticised, especially when the main character vowed to do the same. About then I gave up on the stupid series and stopped going to church so I don't remember the title.

I think it is a damn stupid idea. The best form of love is equal parts caring, commitment, and sex in my book. (Kissing and cuddling is under caring.)

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 7:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

andrew wrote:
Interestingly, the people I knew who were sexually active first and the ones who are the most sexually, uh, intense now were/are the geekier people.

Maybe, though, they were just the ones who felt they needed to be the most obvious/talkative about it.


I never read what you write...i usually just end up staring at your avatar for some reason.
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 8:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zonedout wrote:
man lets hope she jumps his bones in the next strip, he could use it.


He deserves and he needs it. Plus he's refreshingly cute.

And getting married without ever having kissed before... why? I mean what reason would anyone have to do something so repressive?
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LD!



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 8:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Katrin wrote:
Zonedout wrote:
man lets hope she jumps his bones in the next strip, he could use it.


He deserves and he needs it. Plus he's refreshingly cute.

And getting married without ever having kissed before... why? I mean what reason would anyone have to do something so repressive?


maybe therere just really bad procrinators
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 8:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

juggernautxug wrote:
Celaeno wrote:
My friend just got married to a girl he'd never kissed before.

I thought that was at least semi-pertinent to this thread.


sorry, but why would you ever marry someone you never even kissed befor? I mean, shouldn't there be like a spark or something?... Would be funny though if when the priest said, you may now kiss the bride, and when they kissed they're both like, "wow, what the hell were we thinking!?"

They're both incredibly Christian. He's done stuff with girls before, but she had never done anything. They decided to wait until marriage for sex but were worried that kissing would lead to the other stuff and didn't want to put themselves in a position of temptation.
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 10:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

LD! wrote:
Katrin wrote:
Zonedout wrote:
man lets hope she jumps his bones in the next strip, he could use it.


He deserves and he needs it. Plus he's refreshingly cute.

And getting married without ever having kissed before... why? I mean what reason would anyone have to do something so repressive?


maybe therere just really bad procrinators



not to be rude but do u mean procrastinators?
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 10:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bubble wrote:
I really hope theres still girls like Criminy left in world. Then someone would understand him and he wouldn't have to live his life lonely and depressed after all! Very Happy

I found the nice side of me again! It was lost for a while.

Criminy doesn't strike me as the "depressed" type. And he certainly doesn't seem lonely.
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 10:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zonedout wrote:
LD! wrote:
Katrin wrote:
Zonedout wrote:
man lets hope she jumps his bones in the next strip, he could use it.


He deserves and he needs it. Plus he's refreshingly cute.

And getting married without ever having kissed before... why? I mean what reason would anyone have to do something so repressive?


maybe therere just really bad procrinators



not to be rude but do u mean procrastinators?

"pro-creators" more like, given the context.
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Kibate



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 2:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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They're both incredibly Christian

ok, now that's something i can't agree on^^" it's a different reason than mine

mouse wrote:
Kibate wrote:
So for me, i think it's really great to marry someone without the need to kiss or have sex


this strikes me as one dull marriage....


And that's what's wrong with relationships nowadays. You know, for me, love is all about the soul, and how can we find out about the soul of a person? Yes, talking!
People nowadays should talk more and less action. That's what I believe in. If a couple breaks up because they can't touch each other, ever, then it's not even a relationship for me, just a "free" way of having pleasure.

"Talking" may seem more boring to some of you than sex, but after all love isn't about "fun" but about "love", caring etc.
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 2:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You meant not kissing or sexing until marriage. The way you phrased it could have been read as not kissing or sexing while married.
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 3:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kibate wrote:

And that's what's wrong with relationships nowadays. You know, for me, love is all about the soul, and how can we find out about the soul of a person? Yes, talking!
People nowadays should talk more and less action. That's what I believe in. If a couple breaks up because they can't touch each other, ever, then it's not even a relationship for me, just a "free" way of having pleasure.

"Talking" may seem more boring to some of you than sex, but after all love isn't about "fun" but about "love", caring etc.


Do you honestly believe that millions of years of evolution have made reproduction and related processes not an integral part of human relationships?
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 3:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Kibate: You shouldn't look down your nose at people who want and need sex in a relationship. It is a normal, healthy, and good part of a relationship. Notice I said part. Talking and all other aspects of the relationship is important too. However, insisting that sex isn't important is just incorrect.

Perhaps you should rail against couples rushing into sexual relationship instead of saying that sex is unimportant.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 4:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Martian Kyo wrote:
I never read what you write...i usually just end up staring at your avatar for some reason.

That's probably for the best.
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 7:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lasairfiona wrote:

Perhaps you should rail against couples rushing into sexual relationship instead of saying that sex is unimportant.[/color]


I never actually interpreted Kibate saying that sex isn't important in a healthy relationship. More like, relationships with the main focus and aim to have sex are not the healthiest ones when people are actually just wanting someone to love and to be loved themselves.

And when you want to love someone, you also want to know as much as possible about the real personality inside of him/her. To learn whom you're really dealing with. The more you have information about him/her, the more you have characteristics which you can possibly love, thus deepening your relationship.

That's where Kibate's pressure on "talking" comes in. Communication is the finest source for getting more information about a person's opinions, aims, attitudes and other things, which create a huge chunk of personality, or soul, if you wish.
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