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jwadd



Joined: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 160

PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2016 1:43 am    Post subject: Long time lurker sometimes poster Reply with quote

I'm not sure if this would be better in another thread but here goes:

In my 20s. Have had real bad luck making friends / meeting girls. Mostly at work, college, etc etc.

Lately the only thing I enjoy is trying new kinds of hash (not smoking every day, I literally only get excited when I've just bought some new hash I haven't tried yet) or a new microbrew IPA (never drinking to excess, at most i have 3 beers a week).

I have hobbies and shit but theyre all introverted hobbies.

I'm posting this because I'm not sure what my next step is. I wanted to post on an internet forum because I feel most at home on internet forums and its where I perceive there to be 'like minds.'

So in the spirit of Slick and nique and squigs, whats my next step?
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Yinello



Joined: 10 May 2012
Posts: 3266

PostPosted: Mon Feb 08, 2016 8:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I guess the question is: What do you want? And I mean not in the sense of wanting friends but what is it you're seeking right now? Do you simply need people you can talk to about stuff? Or do you want them to be around you? Do you want them to join your hobbies or make you try new things? Do you want to make friends to fight the loneliness or because you feel you have to?

Also having online friends can be just as good as offline friends. I've gotten more support from my online friends in the past for bad issues because it was easier to talk to them about it. And over the years, some of those online friends became offline friends.
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Pineapple



Joined: 01 Jan 2015
Posts: 268

PostPosted: Tue Feb 09, 2016 2:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

my irl social group is ten times as large as it's ever been before
more friends, more lovers, etc etc

and yet
I never stopped
feeling
fucking
lonely

all.
the.
time.
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