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Yinello

Joined: 10 May 2012 Posts: 1202 Location: Behind you
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 8:16 pm Post subject: |
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I usually don't care. The fetishes that really turn me off are anything that has to do with blood or the toilet. _________________ Sinfest Comments Bingo because we like Schadenfreude~ |
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Lasairfiona

Joined: 09 Jul 2006 Posts: 9612 Location: I have to be somewhere? ::runs around frantically::
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 8:26 pm Post subject: |
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| Samsally wrote: | | I used to wonder if I had a fetish in the true sense of the word and that was why normal sex seemed so boring. |
Sex boring? Does not compute!
I know you may be an ace and all that but my brain doesn't compute sex = boring. I have even worse opinions of your previous boyfriends now.  _________________ Before God created Las he pondered on all the aspects a woman might have, he considered which ones would look good super-inflated and which ones to leave alone.
After much deliberation he gave her a giant comfort zone. - Michael |
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Yinello

Joined: 10 May 2012 Posts: 1202 Location: Behind you
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 8:31 pm Post subject: |
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Normal sex can seem boring if your bedpartners and you aren't too experienced and you both accept that that's how it's supposed to be. I thought that too until I read BOOKS! _________________ Sinfest Comments Bingo because we like Schadenfreude~ |
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Sam

Joined: 09 Jul 2006 Posts: 8834
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 8:36 pm Post subject: |
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| Yinello wrote: | | I usually don't care. The fetishes that really turn me off are anything that has to do with blood or the toilet. |
And, thankfully, that stuff is nichier than niche.
Most people are giggly friendly BDSMers who just like bondage sexytimes. |
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Samsally

Joined: 10 Jul 2006 Posts: 5311
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 8:46 pm Post subject: |
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| Lasairfiona wrote: | | Samsally wrote: | | I used to wonder if I had a fetish in the true sense of the word and that was why normal sex seemed so boring. |
Sex boring? Does not compute!
I know you may be an ace and all that but my brain doesn't compute sex = boring. I have even worse opinions of your previous boyfriends now.  |
Lol. Well, it wasn't always boring but it has never compared to what I expected it to be. It's kind of funny, though... I read a lot of steamy stuff (which hasn't actually changed) and there is some stuff that used to -sound- awesome until I actually tried it. Like having my ear blown into or licked. Oh my god I hate that with the fire of a thousand suns. It is the grossest feeling ever and makes me want to punch things or take a hot non-sexual shower.
I think it's just easier to enjoy when I am in no way a part of it. Which sounds weird as hell and I promise I don't creep on real life people or anything. I think it's because I can't handle the pressure of having to feel something. Like, none of the characters in my fiction even know I exist, let alone want me to tell 'em whatever they're doing turns me on or if one thing feels better than another. Nobody to get mad if -everything- falls somewhere between "awful" and "well I can put up with it I guess".
I'm a real sucker for romance though... so I read them anyway, and I enjoy when the characters are happy. _________________ Samsally the Gray |
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Lasairfiona

Joined: 09 Jul 2006 Posts: 9612 Location: I have to be somewhere? ::runs around frantically::
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 9:04 pm Post subject: |
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I've had ear licking/nibbling that was awesome and some that was absolutely awful. My general rule is that I'll try anything twice that doesn't squick me out when I think of it.
Funny thing, it took me dreaming of anal before I tried it. Even then, I did major research of the how to do it without pain and for it to feel good.
edit - I'm just rambling. _________________ Before God created Las he pondered on all the aspects a woman might have, he considered which ones would look good super-inflated and which ones to leave alone.
After much deliberation he gave her a giant comfort zone. - Michael |
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Adyon

Joined: 27 May 2012 Posts: 952 Location: Behind my Cintiq
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 9:06 pm Post subject: |
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Ha ha, Samsally you sound exactly like my wife in how you feel. Things like her ears drive her crazy. Where as I enjoy that kind of thing. For us, amazing love-making comes down to knowing what the other likes and helping to fill that role, whether it's more kissing on her neck during and constantly running my hands smoothly up and down her or her being more aggressive biting my lip.
And she used to have all sorts of kinky "ideas" of what she'd like, but most of which in practice she hated, so she may fantasize about some of them, but we never do them. It turns out the only type of kinky stuff she likes are things that more involve me being in more "fetishy" positions. I say that in quotes, as I agree that the idea of fetishes has changed a lot to no longer mean something people "need" to get off. And I like that too, so we go with it. _________________ Have a Nice Day |
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Lasairfiona

Joined: 09 Jul 2006 Posts: 9612 Location: I have to be somewhere? ::runs around frantically::
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 9:10 pm Post subject: |
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Some fantasies are far better as fantasies than as actions. _________________ Before God created Las he pondered on all the aspects a woman might have, he considered which ones would look good super-inflated and which ones to leave alone.
After much deliberation he gave her a giant comfort zone. - Michael |
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Adyon

Joined: 27 May 2012 Posts: 952 Location: Behind my Cintiq
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 9:12 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah. I have some things that I'd never want done to me in reality that in fantasy is pretty amazing. _________________ Have a Nice Day |
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Sam

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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 9:54 pm Post subject: |
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| I've had a lot of stuff in the Purely Fantasy camp disappear abruptly given the right people and a supportive and pretty constructively exclusive environment. |
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Him

Joined: 10 Jul 2006 Posts: 3949 Location: Strange planet
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 10:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Sam wrote: | | "fetish" has been completely diluted as a word anyway, it usually now just means kinks and nontraditional interests that a person is into in or curious about, as opposed to the original "literally can't get off unless indulging it" meaning. |
In that case I do have a fetish. Interesting. _________________ "Moderation in temper, is always a virtue; but moderation in principle, is a species of vice. " - Thomas Paine |
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Mr Gary

Joined: 30 Apr 2009 Posts: 6163 Location: Some pub in England
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 10:24 pm Post subject: |
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| Sam wrote: | | I've had a lot of stuff in the Purely Fantasy camp disappear abruptly given the right people and a supportive and pretty constructively exclusive environment. |
I'm very supportive of, and am willing to exclusively construct the pretty environment where you show us your wang, Sam. I really am. _________________
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Sam

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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 10:38 pm Post subject: |
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| Mr Gary wrote: | | Sam wrote: | | I've had a lot of stuff in the Purely Fantasy camp disappear abruptly given the right people and a supportive and pretty constructively exclusive environment. |
I'm very supportive of, and am willing to exclusively construct the pretty environment where you show us your wang, Sam. I really am. |
As long as there's a lot of good music |
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Mr Gary

Joined: 30 Apr 2009 Posts: 6163 Location: Some pub in England
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 10:42 pm Post subject: |
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Well, duh, of course. And I'm willing to hire a wide-angled lense, in order to capture it on film in all it's glory Pythonic glory. A really wide lense. _________________
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andrew
Joined: 13 Jul 2006 Posts: 4495 Location: the raging sea
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 11:38 pm Post subject: |
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| <insert comment about Celia's penis> |
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